okay, here goes my first post of the 30 day thingy..=)
I have a question to ask as a start....:
What does 'best friend' mean?
I searched for its definition, and out of the numerous different definitions, I picked this: Someone you can totally be yourself around and not give a care in the world about your actions or feelings because they won't judge you for the stupid things you may do or say.
I guess that suits me well. Thats what a BEST FRIEND is supposed to be. A 'just friend' friend tends to judge you. And then, when you sort of don't meet their 'expectations', they shy away from you. Haha...well, a best friend can be a gal, a guy, your boy/girlfriend, husband, wife, parent/s, basically WHOEVER.
Moving on to MY besties...the people that come to my mind are the girls from JS 2011(namely Beatz, Cindel, Denise, Becks, Su Ee, Rachael, Vennesa, Joanna), Joel So, the Sakais from Teluk Intan, namely: Kathryn See(or rather Katak See @ See Siew Lin), Ancie letra Bieber, Priyashree, Vaish, and some others that don't pop in my mind at the moment.
These people made a diiference in my life just by being who they are. I believe that they had this *magical* effect on me just because I was able to accept them for who they are, able to see past their masks(if they had one) and catch a glimpse of the beautiful soul inside. =)The very reason why I'm able to be me is because I accepted them and felt comfortable enough to be me. The crazy, loud, retarded me...
and most importantly, I was able to unleash the Christian in me and stand for what I believe in openly because I knew I wouldn't be judged. Sure, I'm brave, confident, blah, blah, blah and everything else that any stranger might see on me but these people are the ones who actually see the person in me. The way I feel about things, the way I look at things, the very core of who I am and what makes me, ME=))
I wanna take this opportunity to thank you guys for being who you were meant to be. By doing so, you continue to insipire me to be a better person, and stay true to mysself at the same time..
*personal note to each of you..^_^*
---> Hey, thanks a lot for being my friend and accepting me as one of yours too. I'm truely grateful for your presence in my life. And the friendship we share is like a treasure to me. Very precious, very valuable and much loved. Its a bond that was formed by trust, love, acceptence and most of all the very core of who we are.Those elements make our bond special and different from the ones I have with others. Its definitely irreplacable, and definitely NOT something I want to lose. So, lets not take it for granted and try to let it be a part of our lives. Lets make our friendship a friendship that makes history. But it can only happen if both of us put in some effort TOGETHER... I'll continue to thank God for you and pray that He'll continue to bless you in your life. God bless you, my precious friend!! I love you a LOT and you'd better know it.
*I hope you love me the same too..=)*
True, very true. Accepting one another for who they are and loving them for who they are. A very important lesson we learned in JS. Love you, EVA!
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